Loving Someone Who Moved On

 

A True Story of Unrequited Love and Healing

Where It All Began: Himachal University

We were classmates at a university tucked away in the serene hills of Himachal. That’s where I saw her for the first time—a cheerful, kind-hearted girl who radiated warmth.

Our first encounter was in the college library. She seemed lost in her books, but I could feel her noticing me too. It wasn’t until our Dairy Technology lab session that something truly clicked. From that point on, my heart was hers.

A Digital Connection That Grew

Curious, I sent her an Instagram request. Later, I asked for her number, and she playfully replied, “My number is like an exam—you have to pass it.” Eventually, a class WhatsApp group became my lucky break. When I finally messaged her, she laughed and said, “Finally, you passed the exam.”

A Love That Felt Real—Until It Wasn’t

She was the one who asked for commitment. She made the first move. For a time, it felt like I was part of something genuine. I believed she chose me.

But then, everything changed.

After graduation, she dropped the words that tore my heart apart:

“Abhishek is everything for me. You are nothing.”

I later found out Abhishek had never truly left her life. She told me they’d broken up due to distance. I believed her. I wanted to believe I mattered. But she had already made her choice. And it wasn’t me.

Love, Pain, and the Struggle to Heal

The heartbreak didn’t just hurt emotionally—it affected me physically. My mental health took a hit, and I eventually underwent two spine surgeries. Hospitalized and in pain, I still thought of her. I still loved her.

Even now, I don’t hate her. Even now, my heart holds on.

The Illogical Logic of Love

People often say, “Move on.” But love doesn’t come with an off switch. It lingers. It clings. It hopes, even when hope is gone.

Some might call me naive. Maybe I am. But I’ve learned that love is not about being chosen back—it’s about how deeply we can feel.

To Those Who’ve Loved and Lost

If you’ve ever been in love with someone who didn’t stay, this is for you:

• Don’t be ashamed of your emotions.
• Cherish the memories, even if they’re painful.
• Know that love—true love—leaves a mark, not a scar.

Quote block suggestion:

“Love is beautiful, even when it hurts. It teaches us that we are capable of deep, unconditional emotion.”

Closing Thoughts

Maybe one day, our hearts will find peace. Until then, we heal, one day at a time. And we continue to love—not because it’s returned, but because it’s real.

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peaceful sunset over the hills, symbolizing acceptance and emotional 

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